Archive for May, 2008

Music is Global

It’s been the best past few weeks. I have reconnected to a world that I didn’t even realize I was missing. A friend of my invited me to an AIDS benefit concert, being it was such a good cause I didn’t hesitate to join her for the evening. The GAIA organization brought Habib Koite & Bamada to perform. Habib Koite is a Malian musician who sings and plays guitar. Even though it wasn’t in English the melody was universally upbeat, strong rhythms, and percussions. It was impossible to sit down. The music swept you away to an island beach with pure white sand and crystal blue water. You could envision the black night and torch lights illuminating the night sky as people pounded the sand to keep beat with the music. When they finished performing, I knew I would would hear them in my head for the rest of the ride home and I did.

Then a week later I was invited to the symphony where I heard Andrew Watts performing with our city’s classical orchestra. He was magnificent passion poured out of his fingertips and dazzled the audience with his brilliance. The music was all encompassing and etheral as if one was lifted in the clouds to reign with the gods for an evening.

Two evening with music completely different but equally satisfying. The beauty also lied in the ease of the evening. I called my husband invited him to join us both times declined so I left without having to worry about cooking for anyone or in the real old days getting a baby sitter. There is definately some major pros to not having children living at home full-time.

A recipe to eat with gusto………By Rachael Ray

1 lb of large shrimp shelled & deveined
1/4 C extra virgin olive oil (EVOO)
! T grated lemon peel
2 grated cloves garlic
1/2 t crushed red pepper
salt and pepper
1 lb fresh linquine
4 leeks trimmed, thinly sliced
1/2 C dry white wine , or vermouth
1/4 C chopped parsley

In bowl toss shrimp with 2 T of EVOO, lemon peel, garlic & crushed pepper
Season salt and pepper. Boil water, add pasta cook 5 minutes. Large skillet heat remaining EVOO, cook leeks until wilted. Push leeks to side cook shrimp pour in wine and stir. Add pasta to skillet season with salt and pepper, Add parsley and serve. YUM.

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Springtime is temporary heaven

Today was a beautiful day, full of promise and expectations.  I love the time when you first wake-up and you are thoughtless.  Laying in bed and just feeling the beginning of the day.  Your senses start to kick in and you hear  a bird chirp, or a lawn mower  maybe a car passes by. 

But reality always sets in before that first cup of coffee.  The phone rings and decisions have to be made, as mundane as choosing the color of mulch for the flower beds or guiding a friend in some sort of personal crisis. I

Nothing is ever simple now a days there so much to always worry about.  The news is full of doom and gloom, a cyclone killed thousand of people 2 days ago.  Fuel cost are rising with no end in sight.All I can think about is needing to buy 2 new cars for my boys, and the cost of used ones have escalated so much that it’s almost worthwhile to buy new. Have you looked in the classified section for used cars, it crazy! Buying a used car is a hard thing to do.  You worry that someone didn’t respect it and didn’t take care of it.  You are afraid to put your child into something that isn’t safe and reliable. I always invision the worst scenario, driving on a back road late at night and the car dies. That’s the guilt trip I put on my husband everytime he fiinds one that’s perfect but the mileage is too high.  

Of course we could buy a new car, but that is filled with potholes too.  It’s wrong to reward your children with an expensive gift when they haven’t really earned it.  At least they need to graduate college and have a plan for the future.  So what to do, I will continue to ponder this problem and keep you updated with the outcome.  In the meantime..it’s time for a recipe  I have an easy fish recipe that is delicious, a classic.

Scrod with Ritz crackers

1 lb of fish
3/4 sleeve of ritz crackers
1/2 stick of buter or margarine
1/2 chopped fine onion

Saute the onion in a pan with the butter until soft, on medium heat.  Once cooked add crushed crackers and stir until combined.  Spray a glass pan with pam and add raw fish.  Top with the cracker stuffing and bake in a 350 oven for about 1/2 hour.  Check after 20 min. Enjoy!  

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Are you an Empty-Nester?

There comes a turning point in every women’s life, when you take stock and know you are at the crossroads. When we first moved to this house I thought life was too perfect. My husband and I built this beautiful home moved in with 3 boys, 6 months ,2 1/2, and a 5 year old. Not to mention the Australian Shepard and the Nanny. We were a full house. Steven went off to work in a family business and I stayed home to raise my brood, surrounded by unsuspecting unfriendly neighbors. So, by 4 o’clock in the afternoon I started to look forward to a glass of wine and a 1/2 hour phone call to one of my friends that I had left behind in a state away. They felt close enough to regularly stay in touch with, but were too far away to see often.

So by 4:00 “tea time,” I had a very special allure. I never had more than 1 glass, but within 2 weeks I knew I had to get out of the doll drums and face whatever it was I needed to face. So I did. It took 5 more years of focus and attention but we made a wonderful life with close friends. I had made the decision to be a stay at home Mom which was a very good choice for me. My world revolved around my family including volunteering in the schools and running like a crazy person after school and weekend activities. All three of my sons are great. Now 2 are in undergrad and 1 in law school. So, I took care of business and now I am facing another chapter.

But I am swirling back to a mini crisis again. So , here I go again, except I purposely save that drink for Sat. night out with my husband and friends. There are days in the middle of the week when I might indulge in one too many girls-out lunches. Those are the days when I feel good, but there has to be more to life than retirement at 53. Especially when you have those chance meeting with long forgotten friends in the supermarket. And that proverbial, suburban cliche questions invariably comes-up, “So are you an empty-nester,” I HATE that expression what does that really mean, it sounds so barren and alone. If you have a home and perhaps a husband or significant other even a dog or cat you’re far from alone! Sure it’s different but it doesn’t have to be lonely or empty. But it could be if you let it!

This is what my writing to you will be about, it’s time to move forward and rediscover. For some reason when I am happiest it is always around food, and it’s not that I eat a lot because I don’t. But I love to socialize and travel and explore. An exploration can be no further than a new shop down the street, infact this marvelous man just opened this unique cheese shop in the town over. More about that another time. And now for the recipe of the day…

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Springtime Chicken

Anyhow, I love new recipes so I thought it would be fun to share a new one with you ever time I write. We could share both life experiences and recipes. I would love to post any I get too. This is a good springtime chicken recipe.

Chicken with Rosemary and Lemon

1 Whole Chicken (Free Range is the best)

2T of butter

2 4″sprigs of fresh rosemary

lemon

Clean the chicken well. Thread each sprig of rosemary with 1T of butter cut in 1/2 and threaded on the rosemary. Lift the skin on top of the breast and put the threaded rosemary and butter under the skin. Take a whole lemon and cut off both ends. Place in the cavity. Cook in a 350 oven for about 1 1/2 hours depending on the size of the bird. Season with a little salt and pepper if you want. It’s clean and very fresh tasting.

Let me know what you Think!

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